Relationship

In relationship,

There is no right or wrong.
There is no who care more or who care less.
There is no he/she must take care of me or he/she must pay for me

Everything is not a MUST to do but it's what you would like to do for your other half. Don't take things for granted for there is no FREE things in this world.

有付出，不一定有回报。
如果，
有回报，一定要懂得珍惜，不然它就会不见了。

A healthy relationship is one in which two people encourage to reach their respective goals while sharing each others hope and dream. Rather than becoming so love-struck that you create a world where only the two of you exist, it is much healthier to learn from those aspects of your partner that you respect and admire,and continue to make efforts to improve and develop yourself. "Love is not two person gazing at each other, but two people looking ahead together in the same direction." It follows than that both partners share similar values and beliefs.

Last time I was so blind, follow the wrong direction. Thought it will lead to a life I want but I was wrong. It almost lead me to break my family ties and almost all my fren gone.

People, think most of you heard her side of the stories. People who donno my side of the story will sure side her but people who know me will understand why I do this.

I'm happy with my life now, I finally got someone who is there to support me, care about me, share thoughts with me. Now my family ties are stronger and friends started contact again.

Maybe what I do really hurt her but it's better to hurt her now than later, cos more worst thing might have happen.

A new start for everything NOW

Today a lesson learn

Today I had learn a very important lesson in my life and that is “人善被人欺，马善被人骑”!

Really thanks to her to let me know too kind to a person the person will take it for granted or even claw over your head.

A new chapter of my life

A new chapter of my life had started.. Now busy with school.. going out and chilling with frens.. This few day really enjoy... Thanks for all the frens that sent me wishes.. Thanks alot..

Baby.. I will try my best to give u the most comfortable and good life.. hope there is no big quarrel to begin with.. I will let everyone know and approve our r/s.. many things r to settle and will be done asap.. the barrier i will remove for u.. so that nth can stop us.. all this problem we are facing is not only cause by u but both of us.. cos 1 hand cannot clap.. but we will solve it tgt..

Tanjung Pinang Trip @ 13/06/2009 - 15/06/2009

At TMFT

In the ferry
Lunch

When to Tangjung Pinang again to RELAX and this time is really relax.. not rushing for anything.. haha.. Book the 1st ferry at 830am so that we reach there early to have alot of time shopping and indeed we had a lot of time as we reach there about 1030 am (sg time) even the hotel have not prepare our room so no choose but to have our early lunch to wait for the room to be cleaned..

when out at 12pm, 1st stop wet market near Bintan mall.. Sharon ex-colleuge Susan where to buy Polo ralph but there is no more 50% discount but the price was still cheaper than SG.. when to buy some preserved furits.. When back hotel to wait for massage timing but too bad.. no more vehicle to go so have to wait until 4pm(sg time)..

Wet market near Bintan mall

2Hr massage is just nice for a tired body of mine, after massage when to Ramayana to buy the perfumes and other stuff.. was a very enjoyful day.. At night when to 1 of sharon ex-coll room to see them play majong..


2nd day morning as usual, buffet breakfast was provided. When to Ramayana again to have the gals manicure done and we waited for 2 hr and was damn hungry.. haha.. Sharon ex-coll when back earlier than us as they need to working on moday.. when back hotel to have dinner with sharon.. order pepper crab, parwn and otah for dinner.. have a very great dinner..

Ramayana

3rd day when to wet market to get sharon uncle his t-shirt and walk walk and when back hotel quite early to prepare to go home..

On the way back

IT fair on 11-06-2009 to 14-06-2009

11-06-2009
Late update for IT fair as too busy last weekend.. When to IT fair on the 1st day.. didn't when on the 1st day before but it's better then go in the weekend.. saw alot of stuff and ah da when to buy the creative zen which i recommend for his niece.. haha..

Buy dvd+r for my Wii and 8GB thumb drive for storage.. and it's a good offer as alot of stuff on "discount" and took a Singtel bourcher home to calculate is it worth to change my Mio plan anot..


12-06-2009
Today when back to HQ to change my sub-contractor pass to direct-contractor pass to enjoy the benefit that company give.. haha.. after that when to have a pre-employment checkup..

after that i donno where to take bus as the checkup place is at senton way so LL just walk to suntec and that day was damn HOT lo.. but end up still able to reach there alive..

Finally made up my mind to separate my Mio plan to Mio home + mobile so that i can tak $100 off from the iPhone i bought and able to get the Nokia 810 for free for the 1st 30 cutomers and sharon pay the penalty of $100 cos she still had 1yr contract but still she got the LG KU990 at $100 which is worth it..

13/06/2009 when holiday at Tanjung Pinang liao..

Happening Weekend

Friday was what I look forward to this week.. COS Jeff and me was invited to Zirca for FHM GND final.. haha.. got in free + 2 free drinks.. After event we when to rebel to take a look, maybe it was too early so we when to Lunar..

Inside in Lunar, 1st floor was all the mid 20+ people .. then we when up to 2nd floor and we found out that most older people was there.. And guess what?
Alex ask me

Alex: mao, if you saw your parent here what will your reaction be?
me: -_-|||

then we continue to look around to see girls... and we finally when back to rebel and found the dance floor in flooded... and that was the time the happening start..


Saturday wake up early to go in Malaysia and guess what? me and sharon did not go eat Bak Kut Teh.. we when to watch movie Night At The Museum 2 and this time i "REMEMBER" to bring my clear card.. the movie ticket cost RM6 each + couple seat was RM1 more and small popcon was only RM2 and total for movie is only RM15 and in Singapore we only can buy 1 movie ticket..

After bought the ticket we went to Kim Gary to eat in relaxing mode as we bought a later movie time and total spent for lunch was RM57.. After eating we went to have a walk and take a look around and when for movie.. after movie we went to walk again and this time i went to PADINI shop and most of the stuff was 50% discount and covert to SG rate was SG1 = RM2.41, and i bought 1 long sleeve and 1 collar tee, Total cost is RM107..

Yesterday and today was a tiring day for me and tml will be more worst as tml is GYM session with Trainer Jeff.. haha...

Healthy lifestyle

Had been going to gym every sunday for the pass 2-3 months, getting more and more weight training to turn my fats into muscle. There is one time kanna pull by Jeff to California Gym to take the free 2 week trial but end up until now still haven got the chance to go into it to try.

When they intro the gym to us and also ask us to take our weight, their machine provide more detail on our weight than the normal machine we are using. My muscle weight 65kg and my fats weight 20+kg, and i was OMG.. so many fats..

Now i have been trying to loss my fats away by running around my house there, hope to get rid off all my fats.. Now eating lesser and lesser everyday but not as less as Jeff later he become GOD.. can don't need eat.. haha.. trying to eat lesser but stomach keep groaning.. trying my best to keep fit.. Train more, run more and eat less..

TARGET to loss 5kg by end of June.. 努力奋斗!!!

Bought a new phone

Bought a new phone last night.. cost me $350 for this phone, cos my phone going to be dead.. This is the Sony Ericsson G700 Business Edition.

today morning run again and sharon was sleeping again.. i alone go run then go back bath.. later will be meeting frens to go mod my Wii to play more games.. haha..